“I dream about blood.” That’s how Erin Maynard, Acting President and CEO of PTSD Survivors of America, begins her tragic story, “I Killed a Man and I Want to Die.” In 2008, she unintentionally drove over and killed a pedestrian on the Long Island Expressway. Maynard was heading home from her job as an editorial aide when she felt a “thump” below her car. That “thump” changed her life. That “thump” reverberates throughout her story. Maynard tells it to us straight, bares her soul on the page with stunning courage. Her story is so powerful, and dense, with the residue of trauma – post-traumatic stress disorder, post-traumatic growth, survivor guilt, forgiveness, and identity – that it must be shared. It must be shared so that others can better understand life after trauma.

To learn how Maynard picked up the shards of her shattered life, I encourage you to read her full story in The Spectrum.

Click here for Erin Maynard’s full bio. 

Do you have a personal traumatic story to share? If so, how has it changed you? What can we learn from your experience?

In the wake of the Iraq and Afghanistan wars, we’ve learned more about post-traumatic stress disorder. But have you heard about post-traumatic growth (PTG)? Richard Tedeschi and Lawrence Calhoun, psychologists at the University of North Carolina in Charlotte, conceived the concept in the 1990s. PTG involves a positive psychological change that occurs after experiencing a traumatic event. PTG can be measured through what is called the PTG inventory. But each one of us copes differently, and who is likely to experience PTG depends on several factors, such as personality traits, mood, and gender. http://www.posttraumaticgrowth.com/what-is-ptg/

If you are interested in learning more about PTG, consider reading What Doesn’t Kill Us: A Guide to Overcoming Adversity and Moving Forward by Stephen Joseph: http://www.profstephenjoseph.com/

Here are some other resources that might be of interest:

Post-Traumatic Growth: Positive Changes in the Aftermath of Crisis. Richard Tedeschi, Crystal Park, Lawrence Calhoun. March 1998.

Super Survivors: The Surprising Link Between Suffering and Success. David B Feldman and Lee Daniel Kravetz. June 2014.

American Psychological Association: www.apa.org/post traumatic growth